VIRGINITY

Virginity for boys why is it such a big deal ? If your a virgin or not what's the deal? Gosh this topic is gonna be so awkward to write about but imma put it all out there the way i feel!!!This is the honest truth please don't get offended because of any of the comments here because I am writing about my own experiences tooo......Why is it when it comes to girls virginity it is a big deal because when she is a virgin she is holy but when a girl is not she is a rat.Now if it is a guy he has to have already done sometype of sexual activity.Well most of the time this is the case when your a virgin other boys{men} are like ''like wtf why is he a virgin he can't get it or etc.''As i was on the phone y friend asked me ''Why Do most teenage boys think that virginity is a bad thing?HERES THE SATRIGHT UP ANSWER.Teenage boys definitely think it's a bad thing for themselves to be virgins.This is true for two reasons. 1.) Teenage boys are hornier than any woman can probably comprehend. Therefore, being a virgin is awful because it means that they haven't gotten sex yet. Also, if they haven't gotten it yet, it makes them unsure of their ability to get it EVER. 2.) It's not cool to be a virgin if you're a teenage boy. This is pretty much the case because all boys know that every other boy is as horny as they are and wants sex. So if a boy hasn't had sex, it implies that he can't get sex. Since boys know that a virgin wants to get laid but can't, it implies that he's dorky. It's hard being a teenage boy because it's very difficult for them to get laid. Teenage girls always seem to be "not ready" or "waiting for it to be special" or still holding on to dreams to "saving" themselves for marriage. So boys have a very difficult time of losing their virginity.This is the opposite of teenage girls' experience, where they typically have boys hounding them for sex. Because of this, girls are praised for "making the wise choice" of waiting to have sex- because in actuality sex can lead to pregnancy and disease. Since girls have guys willing to screw them constantly, they have the luxury of waiting until they are "ready" and then choosing to lose their virginity.This brings up the reason for the double standard of men getting praised for having a lot of sex partners while women get criticized. It is because women are hard to get sex from and men have a huge desire to have sex constantly. So men who manage to get sex from a lot of women have accomplished every man's dream. But women have sex at their finger tips constantly, so being highly promiscuous is no amazing feat of accomplishment and is almost like an abuse of power.Back to virginity. I always say: Boys lose their virginity when they finally get lucky after years of longing for sex. Girls lose their virginity when they finally decide to allow a boy/man to do it with her after years of turning guys down.Sorry if I went on too long, but you said you wanted people's thoughts on the subject. So I gave you mine.


please im open ears what do you have to say?